No matter what the status of your mental health or thought process was before your husband’s affair, chances are you are going to notice significant changes after it. One example that some wives experience is obsessive thinking or intrusive negative thoughts. A wife might explain, “I’ve always been pretty strong mentally, but since I have […]
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Many maladies can crop up after your husband has an affair. Some are expected, like the loss of self-esteem and trust. And others are both unexpected and unwelcome, like the loss of sleep. Someone might say, “I’ve always been a fantastic sleeper. My husband is an insomniac, but I am not. I typically sleep the […]
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The topic of what questions to ask a cheating husband comes up very often. Many wives feel like they are asking the same questions over and again after a husband’s affair. This cycle is a problem for a couple of reasons. Sometimes, the wives continue to inquire because their husband isn’t addressing what they really […]
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Many wives who catch their husband cheating assume that he is going to panic. After all, he has been caught in a deplorable act. And he very likely has an awful lot to lose, such as his marriage, his image, and his finances. So it’s a reasonable assumption that a man in this position will […]
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Any wife who has ever dealt with infidelity or an affair knows that the repercussions may not be only temporary. Sure, you may be bombarded with shock, grief, anger, and outrage from the get-go, but you may be surprised to learn that some of these things follow you or morph into something else. Because of […]
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If you are a wife who is dealing with the aftermath of an affair, it’s probably safe to assume that your self-esteem has taken a hit. Your husband’s choice to be with someone other than you hurts, even if it was only temporary or in secret. You may intellectually know that you are beautiful, smart, […]
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It’s natural to have countless questions after you learn that your spouse has had an affair. Why did he do this? How did he hide it from you? Is he remorseful? Will he do it again? Does he have a character flaw that means he can’t be faithful? Was this your fault? What can you […]
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For wives who don’t intimately know the woman with whom your husband had an affair, her image lives only in your mind. If you’ve never actually seen her, even better. You are free to picture her as homely, annoying, or lacking in some other way. Or, you may fear the worst. You may assume that […]
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There’s no question that a wife can feel extremely traumatized after she learns that her husband has cheated or had an affair. It is not unusual to feel as if you are sleepwalking through life (or worse) for quite some time. Some wives worry that the affair will negatively impact their mental health permanently because […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I often hear from wives who are gearing up to meet with or question the woman that their husband cheated with. They often want to know how they should act or what they should ask her. They often will rehearse for, plan out, and play out this meeting in their mind long […]
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