Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

by: Katie Lersch: I recently spoke with a wife who was struggling with her husband’s recent affair. He claimed that this was the first time he had ever cheated, and it would be his last. He promised that he would do whatever was necessary to restore his wife’s trust one day and vowed to prove […]

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by: Katie Lersch: I recently heard from a wife who felt like her marriage and her life was falling apart. A few weeks ago, her husband had come home and confessed that he had been having an affair with a coworker. He insisted that he was sorry and did not want to lose his family. […]

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by: Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from husbands who are desperately sorry for cheating on their wives and the pain that this has caused. They are also usually desperately afraid that they are going to lose their wives and their families. They are looking for advice on the most effective and meaningful things to do […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I know a wife who had cheated on her husband for about 4 months with a coworker. The husband actually caught her cheating by looking at her cell phone. When he confronted the wife, she admitted to the cheating and she immediately realized that her actions could very well cost her the […]

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by: Katie Lersch: I know a wife whose husband’s affair lasted for two months. The wife had found out about it from a mutual friend. It really bothered her that the husband hadn’t come clean on his own. However, once the wife confronted her husband, he immediately expressed his sorrow and remorse. In fact, the […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Unfortunately, many folks are struggling to deal with infidelity, cheating, and affairs. Many go into this process with the belief that infidelity always destroys the marriage. I often hear things like: “Well, I guess this means the end of my marriage. I can’t believe he would do this to us. I hope […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Most of the people who reach out to me are the cheated on. They’re trying to rebuild, heal, and restore their self-esteem.  Occasionally, though, I hear from the unfaithful spouse who desperately wants to make things right. They’re looking for guidance on how to confess their infidelity, convey their profound regret, and […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Having a husband who cheats is one of the things that almost all women fear. We all know couples who have had their marriages ruined by cheating. We all know wives who were never really the same after they were cheated on. This is many of our “worst case scenarios” — the […]

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by: Katie Lersch: I was recently asked about the plausibility of an excuse by a wife whose husband had told her that he’d had an affair as an “escape mechanism” for the stress that was in his life at the time.  He had recently lost his father, was worried about his job, had a health […]

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By: Katie Lersch: It’s not unusual for wives to feel pressured to offer forgiveness after their husband cheats or has an affair. And many of the wives struggle with this. Some really want to save their marriages. They want to move on. But, they are still very angry about the whole situation. Some feel rage […]

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