One of the most common questions asked after an affair is, “Why would my spouse do this?” Many faithful spouses sincerely feel that they had a decent marriage. So they are often perplexed as to what would motivate someone who is otherwise a good person to betray them in such a terrible way. One reoccurring […]
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Sometimes, I hear from women who are many months (or even years) post-affair. They’ve had ample time to process and then heal, but many have not. They find themselves still overwhelmingly angry, and they aren’t sure why. It can be very frustrating to carry around negative feelings when you should be moving on by now. […]
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One of the most common things that faithful spouses struggle to understand is what their cheating spouse was thinking while being unfaithful. If you polled a large, random group of people, most of those people would tell you that cheating is wrong. Yet, statistics indicate that plenty of married people not only cheat, but then […]
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It’s normal to look for a concrete and believable reason that your spouse cheated or had an affair. Sometimes, your spouse will insist he doesn’t know why he cheated. Other times, he will very willingly offer up a reason. Anxiety is sometimes used as justification for the cheating. Understandably, the faithful spouse can question if […]
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Many faithful wives spend a lot of time thinking about their husband’s affair. Understandably, these wives have questions, many of which share a common theme. The wives want to know which feelings were the foundation of the affair. To that end, wives wonder how their husband treated the other woman. A wife might ask questions […]
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No matter what the status of your mental health or thought process was before your husband’s affair, chances are you are going to notice significant changes after it. One example that some wives experience is obsessive thinking or intrusive negative thoughts. A wife might explain, “I’ve always been pretty strong mentally, but since I have […]
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Many maladies can crop up after your husband has an affair. Some are expected, like the loss of self-esteem and trust. And others are both unexpected and unwelcome, like the loss of sleep. Someone might say, “I’ve always been a fantastic sleeper. My husband is an insomniac, but I am not. I typically sleep the […]
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The topic of what questions to ask a cheating husband comes up very often. Many wives feel like they are asking the same questions over and again after a husband’s affair. This cycle is a problem for a couple of reasons. Sometimes, the wives continue to inquire because their husband isn’t addressing what they really […]
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Many wives who catch their husband cheating assume that he is going to panic. After all, he has been caught in a deplorable act. And he very likely has an awful lot to lose, such as his marriage, his image, and his finances. So it’s a reasonable assumption that a man in this position will […]
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Any wife who has ever dealt with infidelity or an affair knows that the repercussions may not be only temporary. Sure, you may be bombarded with shock, grief, anger, and outrage from the get-go, but you may be surprised to learn that some of these things follow you or morph into something else. Because of […]
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