By: Katie Lersch: Many wives hope for a cheating husband who makes a near-fool of himself to get in her good graces after an affair. In reality, many wives get much less than this. Many get husbands who are stand-offish, distant, and cold. Unfortunately, many husbands are LESS demonstrative and affectionate after they’ve been caught […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many of us define our reaction to cheating before it ever happens to us. We tell ourselves (and our husband) that if he ever cheats, we are leaving. We claim that we will be out the door so fast his head will spin. However, when cheating becomes a reality, we stay put. […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Unfortunately, many wives who are trying to move on after the affair are very frustrated with the pace of their progress. Many of them worry that recovery is taking far longer than they anticipated. They sometimes think that this means that their marriage is now doomed to fail or that they can’t […]
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By: Katie Lersch: One of the top complaints from wives after a husband’s affair is an inability to move on. Even if you are typically stoic and practical, it can be normal to ruminate over a spouse’s affair for much longer than you intend to. Even worse, it can seem that the spouse who did […]
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By: Katie Lersch: There is a stereotype of the aging man who has an affair with the golddigger younger woman. For the most part, this is who we picture when we think about marital infidelity. However, statistics tell us a very different story. It is not just men who cheat. It is not just older […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Sometimes when you are trying to move on with life after the affair, you will remember significant days along the way. Even a couple of years later, these significant dates stick out in your mind. For example, you may remember the date that you found out about the affair, or when you […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many people assume that when a spouse cheats, he is ready to end his marriage (or is at least is neutral about it. ) The assumption is that he’s no longer invested. Sure, he might make pitiful attempts to hide the affair, but he will not go out of his way to fight for the […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Finding out your spouse has cheated is hard enough without him justifying his actions or pretending he did nothing wrong. Unfortunately, since it is human nature to want to defend oneself (especially with a colossal mistake like cheating) this might be what you get. At least initially, you may have an indignant […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Although the target audience of this article is the spouse who cheated, I suspect the faithful spouse is reading it. Why? Because it is usually the faithful spouse who seeks the information to help her heal. The cheating spouse doesn’t necessarily want to read about a topic that hits so close to home. […]
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By: Katie Lersch: I sometimes notice a spike in traffic for this site beginning in January. I’ve made no changes on my end to cause this change, but I think I know why it is happening. Sites and apps that facilitate affairs admit that there is a huge uptick in traffic in January of every […]
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