Infidelity Articles By Katie Lersch

By: Katie Lersch: I’ve heard a lot of questions from wives dealing with cheating husbands. But one of the more common ones is some variation of “Why am I still married to a man who cheated?” The wife usually says this as if she has something to explain or apologize for. It generally sounds something […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I think most people would agree that faithful spouses have every right to be furious with cheating spouses who have affairs. No matter what was going on in your life and your marriage, there’s arguably no excuse for betraying your spouse in such a way, ignoring your wedding vows, and hurting/lying to […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Many faithful wives have serious fears and reservations when it comes to their cheating spouse. Many worry that they will never be able to trust him again. Or they worry that their marriage will never recover. And some worry that if it does recover, it’s not going to be a marriage that […]

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By: Katie Lersch:  I think most people understand why a faithful wife would be angry at the woman who is cheating with her husband. I also think that most people would agree that a wife in this situation has every right to lash out. And many wives do just that. In a moment when their […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Many faithful spouses start out feeling that something is off with their spouse. He’s acting weird. They notice that he is doing things that he wouldn’t normally do and saying things that he wouldn’t normally say. So for a while, many faithful spouses watch and wait.   Eventually, they may see some text […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Sex can be one of the most awkward parts of affair recovery, and that awkwardness can happen even if things otherwise go relatively okay. But married couples trying to recover from an affair who have a bad sexual experience can feel even more pain and doubt than before. And they can start […]

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By: Katie Lersch: Most faithful spouses anticipate severe marital challenges after they learn their spouse has cheated or had an affair. Many understand the need to navigate trust issues and resentment toward their spouse. These effects are known to most people.   But I find that many faithful spouses are surprised at some unanticipated effects popping […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I must offer fair disclosure. Most of the time, I write my articles for the faithful spouse. That is the demographic who most often reads my articles, and those are the shoes that I myself have been in. However, sometimes when I look over the analytics for this blog, I see that […]

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By: Katie Lersch: I think it’s safe to say that most wives dealing with infidelity fantasize about a husband who immediately admits to his infidelity, quickly understands the gravity of his actions, and swiftly and willingly begins the work of rehabilitation and recovery. However, for many wives, that scenario is truly a fantasy. It is […]

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By: Katie Lersch: There are many excuses that people give for being unfaithful to their spouses. Some of them are easy to dismiss out of hand. And others require at least some consideration. One example is a one-time thing that was supposedly caused by drinking. In other words, the cheating spouse’s inhibitions were down because […]

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