by: katie lersch: Many wives who are trying to save their marriages after a husband’s affair run into some issues along the way. Many are still shocked, furious, and struggling but are still trying very hard to place the focus on moving forward. Although their husbands might claim that they too are committed, it can […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Many wives who feel absolute hatred for the woman with whom their husband cheated. The wives often think that most of their marital problems are all this woman’s fault. And it can be hard to argue with this when the marriage was moving along just fine until she came along. Many wives […]
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by: katie lersch: It’s interesting that a lot of the women who write to me are more worried about their husband’s emotional feelings about the woman with whom he’s cheating (we’ll call her “the mistress” in this article) than they are about how he feels about her physically. Many tell me things like “I can deal […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Some wives aren’t sure what course of action they want to take after they discover that their husband has had an affair. Often, they are so angry that they are almost paralyzed. Of course, it’s very common for your first inclination to be to kick him right out. It’s normal to be […]
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By: Katie Lersch: One of the most common emotions that a faithful spouse is searching for in the aftermath of an affair is remorse. The faithful spouse can desperately want to believe that the cheating spouse is deeply sorry. And there are many reasons for this: Often, the faithful spouse wants reassurance that they are […]
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By: Katie Lersch: There’s no question about it. Whether you see it on the cover of a tabloid or catch a report of it while flipping through television, there really is no escaping it: There seems to be a wave of high-powered men caught cheating with their nanny, maid, personal assistant, babysitter, secretary, etc. Whether […]
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By Katie Lersch: I sometimes hear from wives whose husbands have cheated more than once. This is bad enough. But sometimes, he is cheating with the same woman multiple times. I recently heard from a wife who said in part: “I was more than devastated the first time I found out about my husband’s affair. […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Quite understandably, many people have extremely strong and quick reactions after they discover that their husband has been having an affair. In fact, many wives are tempted to kick their husband out immediately, even if they are not sure if they want a divorce. Often, you can’t even think that far ahead. […]
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By: Katie Lersch: Because of my background and my infidelity blogs, I do a lot of research about what most contributes to infidelity and how it manifests itself. I recently read an article that listed the top 10 countries for infidelity. Some of the countries on the list surprised me somewhat, while others did not. […]
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I do not believe that every marriage affected by an affair was one that was on the verge of divorce. In fact, statistics prove otherwise. Many people who have affairs later insist that they weren’t unhappy in their marriage and had no intention of leaving it. Nonetheless, I sometimes hear of or from people who […]
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