I sometimes hear from wives who are considering unconventional ways to heal after their husband has an affair. One example is writing a letter forgiving the other woman. A wife might explain, “I am not trying to downplay my husband’s affair. It was so painful, and I am not over it. But I am trying […]
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I hear from some wives who want to know what to say or how to talk to their husband after his infidelity. However, some wives don’t have this issue because their husbands are avoiding them. Once the affair was discovered, he exited the situation and has been absent ever since. Understandably, this is extremely frustrating. […]
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It’s easy to tell that this blog caters to wives who are dealing with infidelity. That is my experience, so that is the viewpoint from which I write. It’s very easy for me to write for these wives because I have been there and I know how they feel. However, I have dialogued with the […]
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Sometimes, although a faithful wife is dealing with the uncertainty of her husband cheating, she at least has clarity on her husband’s feelings about the marriage. Since her husband is claiming that he wants to stay with her, she knows that her marriage can endure unless she chooses otherwise. However, what is less clear is […]
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In some cases, women dealing with a husband who had a long term affair can struggle more than wives of husbands who had a one night stand. There are many theories as to why. One is that since the husband maintained the relationship for so long, there must be genuine and strong feelings involved. Another […]
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One of the most common questions asked after an affair is, “Why would my spouse do this?” Many faithful spouses sincerely feel that they had a decent marriage. So they are often perplexed as to what would motivate someone who is otherwise a good person to betray them in such a terrible way. One reoccurring […]
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Sometimes, I hear from women who are many months (or even years) post-affair. They’ve had ample time to process and then heal, but many have not. They find themselves still overwhelmingly angry, and they aren’t sure why. It can be very frustrating to carry around negative feelings when you should be moving on by now. […]
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One of the most common things that faithful spouses struggle to understand is what their cheating spouse was thinking while being unfaithful. If you polled a large, random group of people, most of those people would tell you that cheating is wrong. Yet, statistics indicate that plenty of married people not only cheat, but then […]
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It’s normal to look for a concrete and believable reason that your spouse cheated or had an affair. Sometimes, your spouse will insist he doesn’t know why he cheated. Other times, he will very willingly offer up a reason. Anxiety is sometimes used as justification for the cheating. Understandably, the faithful spouse can question if […]
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Many faithful wives spend a lot of time thinking about their husband’s affair. Understandably, these wives have questions, many of which share a common theme. The wives want to know which feelings were the foundation of the affair. To that end, wives wonder how their husband treated the other woman. A wife might ask questions […]
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